It’s almost the end of the year, and what a year it’s been!
After last year being so ill and having to take off the majority of 2023, this year has been phenomenal! I’ve learnt so much, I’ve met some amazing people and the play has been incredible. If you came to see me this year, thank you so much!
I’ve recently setup a clip/fan site where you can see some of things that I do. The most extreme are exempt from this site unfortunately (it’s all safe, legal and sane, but I don’t make the guidelines). There’s still so much I am showing, and always more to come! I’ll be filming a variety of different scenarios, professionally made, POV content, amateur, and my adventure updates! Sign up and subscribe ->
From January, I will be filming again and building up my library of FemDom Kinkery. I’ll be holding filming dates every now and again, so keep a look out if you wish to film with me. I film a variety of scenes, with different levels to suit most kinksters.
I’ve also moved across to Blue-sky to keep my promotion going and keep you up to date on my antics. I’m not planning on deleting my X account, I’m just expanding my reach to other places. I have a link tree, with all my links in one place. If it’s not on the link tree, then it’s not me! Here’s the link ->
On December 15th I will be attending the BBB, and I will be hosting at the impact station on the evening for the after party. Come for a seasons beating from yours truly! https://www.thebbb.co.uk/
There will be a FemDom Christmas party with me, Domina Jemma and Mistress Katerina on the 17th December. There will be a mixed femdom play party in the afternoon, and then the evening is followed by a meet & greet crimbo social. Times are play party- 12 – 5pm and meet & greet social- 6 – 9pm. This will be held in The Facility Studios in Walsall. For info & booking go to ->
There’s also plans in motion to be working with other ProDommes. Holding double Domme sessions and also filming opportunities.
Real time intimate sessions with me will continue as normal.
If you are planning on getting me a gift this Christmas, may I suggest these 3 ideas:
*Subscribe to my darkfans site (link is above).
*An amazon gift card.
*A bank transfer (I have new bank details: please ask me for this).
Any of these things contributes to my plans for 2025! I will be most grateful and I always make sure you are thanked properly for this!
If I don’t see you before Christmas, I hope you have a safe and enjoyable Christmas. Here’s to 2025, more professional growth from me, more filth and more shenanigans!
I havent offered a deal in a long time, so I’m making this deal count!
From September 16th till 29th, my tribute will be £130 per hour. Whether it’s 1 hour, or an extended session of 6 or more hours, the tribute will be £130 an hour! This is a deal not to be missed!
*A deposit will be required to reserve your spot*
Think about it for a minute; my tribute is usually £170 an hour. That’s a saving of £40 an hour. If you book 3 hours that’s £120! It all adds up and you’re still getting the quality of my normal sessions. Whether you’re a client or mine, or new to my domain, you can apply for this deal. Just quote ‘deal Sept 2024’.
These 2 weeks will sell out fast because of the competitive tribute, so book in quickly to secure your spot.
There are exceptions where the tribute will be higher:
•Use of the vac bed.
•Requesting I wear latex.
•Piercing with jewellery.
Don’t forget to quote ‘deal Sept 2024’. Apply via email.
Hello reader! It seems like ages since I wrote a blog. January was the last time and it’s been so busy since then. I’ve also got lots of things to share with you!
I’ve expanded on kit and also my skill set.
I’ve recently invested in a Venus 2000 Milking machine. It’s the best and it can be used to drain you, but also tease, taunt and deny. It really is so much fun. I also have a new canvas bondage sleep sack. This is versatile in what scenes it can be used for, and perfect for use in my asylum! If you love bondage, then you must try this.
The medical room has had a face lift, new splash of paint, and there is a new treatment bed. Perfect for those longer sessions for comfort and versatility!
I have also be practicing my whipping skills. I’ve got to grips with the snake whip and loving using it. My CP kit has increased with various implements to provide different sensations and differing marks. I am hopefully getting some more whips to add to my collection soon. My knife collection is growing too. This is such a sensual art, with a mix of fear play put into it. It’s a head f*ck for you, but when trusting in me, can quickly send you into space with the emotions you feel!
I have even more ideas of things I want to learn to increase my skill set. More things to tease you, mindfuck you, hurt you, make your heart beat faster so you want more. I’m always growing, evolving and learning. I have a real passion for it, and is so important for my profession!
I have started offering 1 hour sessions again. They will be based around 1, perhaps 2 fetishes during a session. An hour isn’t that long, but sometimes an hour is all you need. It might be that you want to try something new, so a one hour session will give you an introduction. A one hour session may revolve around:
*foot worship
*anal play such as strapon
*needle play
*corporal punishment such as whips, canes, floggers etc
*bondage
*electrics such as the violet wand or estim
*wax play
*tie and tease
If you have a request for a session, please ask. I do have an extensive list on my website that says what I offer. If you are wanting a 1 hour session, I will not be wearing latex!
I will also be bringing back my art project. This was a huge hit when I did this before. A reduced tribute applies for this. I love creating art on other humans. I would like to do this to get creative, have fun, harness my skills and learn. The list is not exhaustive, but I would like to use needles, medical staples, saline injections, sutures, beads, threads, body jewellery and cautery pens. I would also like to experiment with not breaking the skin aswell, so things like wax, felt tip pens, lipstick, oh the list could go on! You have a human canvas, and I love to make use of it. The art project is for my own promotional use. If you are interested, please drop me an email.
Some plans for the future months are:
I have entered a competition, with 3 categories; Best Mistress/Dominatrix, Best UK Medical Mistress, and Best Midlands Mistress. The competition is held through Professional Mistresses, which is a large directory of ProDommes in the UK. I have never put myself forwards for competitions and awards, so this is a big step for me! It would mean so much if you could vote for me. Voting starts on the 1st June and lasts all month. You can vote daily. The website to visit and to vote is https://www.professionalmistresses.co.uk/west-midlands-mistress-beth-bedlam-dominatrix/
On 15th June I will be visiting Madame Li Ying in London, so that she can teach me the art of suturing. We are looking for a human canvas so that I can practice. If you are interesting in being my guinea pig, please contact Madame Li Ying.
On July 11th I will be travelling to Wiltshire to meet with Mistress Jane for some double Domme fun! Mistress Jane has an amazing play space and we will be offering many areas of play such as medical, corporal punishment, strapon, CBT, milking etc. There’s so many things that we can do together. If you are interested in seeing us both, please respectfully contact either me or Jane via email and we can get you booked in. Mistress Jane’s email is mistressjane4u@hotmail.co.uk
I’m still continuing to offer real time sessions, this is my passion and I love the intimacy of private sessions. Leave your life at my door and come and indulge in your kinks with me. Please use my email to reach out for bookings. My email is mistressbethbedlam@gmail.com
I’m starting the first quarter of the year with some lovely plans. I’m back at it all, and ready to see clients. Whether you’ve seen me before, or plan to, I will be ready to welcome you into my domain. Start your year right as you mean to go on, and plan a session with me. Take a look at what I offer, look at my pictures and read my blogs and testimonials. There’s lots of useful information on my website.
From the 14th till 24th February, me and my partner in crime, Mistress Katerina will be offering a bloody Valentine’s duo. We cater to many things and I’m sure your valentines date with us will end up in heartbreak 🤣 Mistress Katerina’s website is https://www.mistresskaterina.co.uk/ If you’re interested in a Double Domme Destruction session, please email me.
In March, Domina Parties Midlands will be back. I have been asked to be the prison’s own Doctor, in their event ‘Lockdown’. I will be conducting some highly classified medical experiments on some of the prisoners. Will you be brave enough to see the Dr Bedlam? This event is always very popular, and with this new event running alongside, it’s best to get your name down on the list ASAP! Here’s some more information about the events https://dominaparties.co.uk/midlands/
I’m also raising funds for some new equipment that I would really like and would make my sessions with my clients even more interesting. Please donate to my crowdfund’s on wishtender. It would mean alot and I would be very appreciative! https://www.wishtender.com/MistressBedlam
Thats all for this month’s update, thank you for reading!
Glad you’re here! Well, it’s been a horrendous year for me having to take a long hiatus. I have missed my clients, my adventures and all things kinky. I’m so glad to say that in the new year I will be back. I am taking bookings for January onwards. So excited to enjoy your kinks with you, and our journeys that we will share!
I have plans that I would like to share with you. Once I’m back, following a period of a reduced working schedule, I will be offering doubles with other Domina’s. There’s also plans for the clinic to have a face lift and I’ll be offering new experiences with new equipment. I’m really excited about this and I’m sure you will be when I reveal more!
My rates have changed, but only for new clients. See my earlier blog for details. If we have met once or more, you will stay on my lower rate. Newer clients will be on my higher rate. This is down to the cost of living, but also the price of my materials and disposables going up. If you want to book in, please email me: mistressbethbedlam@gmail.com
I would like to wish you a very Merry Christmas and best wishes for 2024. I hope to see you there!
Hello kinky people, I’m just giving you an update of my status.
I won’t be around for a while as I’m taking some time out to heal from my illness. I won’t be doing any work of any kind during this time. I can’t put a timescale on how long I will be away.
Please be patient for replies to messages!
You can still get your Bedlam fix from my clips store (this helps me with extra £££ while I’m away).
It won’t be long till I’m back! Be patient. I can’t wait to put my hands on all of you again soon! Nothing will stop me coming back to my wicked ways.
My apologies it’s been a while since I last posted. I’ve been unwell, I’m glad to say that my long hiatus has been beneficial to my recovery. I am hoping to re-start real time sessions in September. I am overjoyed as I have missed my kinky adventures, and my lovely amazing clients. During my long recovery I’ve been gratefully supported by my clients, and some I now hold close to my heart! A massive thank you to those who have been supportive during this time.
With the cost of my materials going up (due to brexit and also the cost of living crisis but also I’m f**king great at what I do) my rates are going up. From the 1st October, tributes will be £170 per hour. For clients that have supported me, and I hold dear to me, my regular tribute of £140p/h will still be in place. People on my regular rate will be notified of this. Any people booked already for September and October, will be using my regular rate. Going forward, any new clients I take on, will be tributing my higher rate.
I cannot wait to be back, and seeing my lovely clients and getting back to kinky antics. I’ve so missed it!
As another year passes, I want to take this opportunity to thank all of my clients for an amazing 2022. It’s been another great year with so much fun and filth with faces old and new! I am so grateful for your support, kindness and gratitude to me. This is what I am passionate about, and your kind after session words build me up! I love doing what I do, and building on my expertise. I shall keep doing it for however long my love and passion is there. I have received some lovely gifts from people this year, this means so much to me! If you want to send me a gift, this act will always be noticed and goes in your favour. I’ve added some new items for a new venture, can you guess what I will be up to? My amazon wishlist link is https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/GYTKUUESJ555?ref_=wl_share
Furthermore, I’ve had another year of development and learning! My proffesional development and skillset has increased once again. Also, in the beginning of the year, I set out to start professional filming, and this has gone well. I’ve learnt so much and had a ball. Big thank you to all my co creators and filming subs! If you haven’t already, go check out my clip site at https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/206027/the-emporium-of-perversions
My darkfans account is a subscription and also doubles as a clip site https://darkfans.com/MistressBedlam
I’ve been away for a few months due to personal circumstances. From January I will be back again with even more plans in building on my empire! I can’t wait to welcome you back into my domain. Get your new year real time session booked with me 🙂 email me at mistressbethbedlam@gmail.com
I will NOT be raising my rates in January. There will be a change to my cancellation policy. On booking a session, I require a deposit. This is non refunable, and I now require a minimum of 48 hours notice to cancel or rearrange a session. Anything less than 48 hours notice, you will lose your deposit. I have made this change so that I have a minimum of 48 hours to fill this space and not lose out financially.
Best wishes for 2023, I hope it is your best year yet! I hope to see you really soon.
My passion is real time sessions! I love building an enjoyable session with new clients, and also building on a relationship with my regular clients. I find that because real time sessions are private, they become more intimate and also intense!
Before the session I like to plan with you what we will be doing. I will always take note of your hard and soft limits. Consent is hot! I have my own limits and they will be voiced with you.
I expect you to be respectful and also communicate to me what your needs and wants are.
Please send me dates that you want to session on and tell me how long you want to session for. I will ask you some questions, I really need you to answer them! More detail the better so I get to know you! Send a deposit so that I can secure your date. This is non refunable. Also, tell me what you want to do. I am comfortable and confident of my own style of doing things, and I play in my way. If you want me to do things in a particular way to your own liking, then I’m not the Domme for you. On booking your session I will give you details of my location and confirm everything with you. My tribute rate is £140 per hour. I believe that this is a reasonable rate for my skill set, knowledge and experience. The tribute rate also takes into consideration the type of equipment I use in our session such as disposables like cleaning products, body jewellery, lube and even sterile medical equipment, etc.
Please be on time for your session, if you are going to be late, let me know.
If you need to cancel your session, please let me know as soon as possible. Things can and do crop up, that’s life! We can reschedule it for another date. Likewise if I am unable to carry out the session, I will try to let you know as soon as I can.
You may bring with you any play equipment you want to use. If we are doing any anal play, you need to have douched before the session. You may use my douche if you need to, but this will be during your session time. If you are unhygienic I take this as a disrespect to me and may refuse to play any further.
The safe word I use is ‘Red’ to stop, or ‘amber’ to change what I am doing if that particular activity is not working for you. You can take as many breaks as you need. Sometimes things get so intense, you may need some time out.
I will always give aftercare after we have finished our session. A chat over a sugary drink and something to eat helps. This is not just important for our trust, but also to make sure that you are safely back in the real world before you leave.
If you want to book in for a real time session, email is my best point of contact.