What you need to know, and what I expect.
My passion is real time sessions! I love building an enjoyable session with new clients, and also building on a relationship with my regular clients. I find that because real time sessions are private, they become more intimate and also intense!
Before the session I like to plan with you what we will be doing. I will always take note of your hard and soft limits. Consent is hot! I have my own limits and they will be voiced with you.
I expect you to be respectful and also communicate to me what your needs and wants are.
Please send me dates that you want to session on and tell me how long you want to session for. I will ask you some questions, I really need you to answer them! More detail the better so I get to know you! Send a deposit so that I can secure your date. This is non refunable. Also, tell me what you want to do. I am comfortable and confident of my own style of doing things, and I play in my way. If you want me to do things in a particular way to your own liking, then I’m not the Domme for you. On booking your session I will give you details of my location and confirm everything with you. My tribute rate is £140 per hour. I believe that this is a reasonable rate for my skill set, knowledge and experience. The tribute rate also takes into consideration the type of equipment I use in our session such as disposables like cleaning products, body jewellery, lube and even sterile medical equipment, etc.
Please be on time for your session, if you are going to be late, let me know.
If you need to cancel your session, please let me know as soon as possible. Things can and do crop up, that’s life! We can reschedule it for another date. Likewise if I am unable to carry out the session, I will try to let you know as soon as I can.
You may bring with you any play equipment you want to use. If we are doing any anal play, you need to have douched before the session. You may use my douche if you need to, but this will be during your session time. If you are unhygienic I take this as a disrespect to me and may refuse to play any further.
The safe word I use is ‘Red’ to stop, or ‘amber’ to change what I am doing if that particular activity is not working for you. You can take as many breaks as you need. Sometimes things get so intense, you may need some time out.
I will always give aftercare after we have finished our session. A chat over a sugary drink and something to eat helps. This is not just important for our trust, but also to make sure that you are safely back in the real world before you leave.
If you want to book in for a real time session, email is my best point of contact.
Mistressbethbedlam@gmail.com